Are Border Collies Affectionate?

Do Border Collies Like Affection?

Border Collies are naturally very loyal and devoted, always keen to please their owners. This attitude transfers into cuddles and affection too! They often never leave their owners’ side and love to snuggle up at the end of an active day. Though not all Collies will have the same personality, most share the same sentiments and, with good training, will always be your best friend. 

Are Border Collies Clingy?

You may have heard people describing Collies as ‘velcro,’ meaning they can be too clingy and appear too attached to their owners. This isn’t a bad thing though, having a companion that stands by you is perfect for some. Make sure you assess how much time you can devote to your Collie before adopting, not just in terms of cuddles but also exercise too. 

Border Collies were initially bred as herding dogs and lived in colder climates in Scotland. Many still work on farms and ranches worldwide, helping farmers herd cattle. If you’re considering buying a Collie, consider going to a breeder rather than a herding line. Collie from a herding line will have a more attached personality that may be harder to deal with – especially if you’re a first-time owner. 

But remember, Collies’ long history of herding has developed their understanding of humans, and they can often understand the wants and needs of their owners. Border Collies are natural-born people-pleasers, perfect if you’re after a best friend.

Do Border Collies Have Too Much Energy?

You may have also heard that Border Collies are very energetic dogs, which is true! This abundance of energy doesn’t cancel out their need for chill cuddle time; it just means they require a good amount of daily exercise before they can relax and snuggle. If they don’t get adequate exercise, they can be more likely to nip or make a habit of excessive barking, but this can be ironed out with some patient training. 

Early socialization and training from when they’re pups can help Border Collies direct their energy positively and help them settle into family life. This will help them become more adjusted to you, and they’ll be even more affectionate. Owners that spend good amounts of time walking their Collies will reap the benefits of a lifelong bond with their dog.

Why Is My Border Collie Avoiding Affection?

Remember that all dog breeds are different and even every Border Collie is different too. Not all Collies will want to cuddle as much as the next, so don’t take offense if your Collie is independent. 
Temperament changes from dog to dog; maybe your Collie shows love on their terms. Some may feel happier showing their affection at certain times or in certain places – they may only favor certain people. 

However, if you feel that your Border Collie is being distant, this can indicate that something is off or wrong. This is particularly clear when your Collie goes from loving a cuddle to suddenly avoiding them. 

If you’re unsure why your Border Collie suddenly dislikes cuddling, it could be due to one of these reasons.

Age

Sometimes as Border Collie’s age, they can become more distant. This could be due to wanting more of their own space or simply keeping to themselves. 

Depression

Sadly, all dogs can become depressed. This usually happens when Border Collies feel abandoned, lonely, or even when they’re bored for long periods. Also, if you leave your Collie alone for extended periods (while at work etc.), they can become restless as they need physical and mental stimulation. These reasons can all end up in your Collie not wanting to cuddle.

Poor Training

Ineffective training methods, including negative reinforcements and punishments, can result in a less effective Collie. In this case, consult a professional trainer or patiently retrain your dog, making slow attempts and don’t show frustration.

Needs More Socialization 

When pups are young, they should start socialization; this will help them get used to contact with people and reduce their potential anxieties. You should introduce your young Collie to as many people and animals as when they’re young so that they learn to be comfortable in others’ companies. This will also boost their confidence in different surroundings, making them easier to live with.

Illness

If a dog is ill or in pain, it’ll want more space and will usually avoid any cuddles. This can be due to their protective mechanisms and will stop an owner from realizing the issue. Dogs can be keen to hide injuries and illnesses, so if you suspect the lack of cuddling is stemming from this, consult a vet to get your Collie checked out. 

While it’s possible your Border Collie may not be very affectionate, it’s always good to check out their behavior when they’re avoiding contact. Many of the factors appear over time as they age, but always make sure (if you can) to get your Collie well socialized when they’re younger. Again, always consult a professional veterinarian if you suspect any illness.

Frequently Asked Questions

Do Border Collies Get Attached To Their Owners?

Border Collies are fiercely loyal dogs, so they can become quite attached to their owners, especially those who feed them and look after them the most. If you want to avoid your Collie having a favorite family member, encourage everyone in the household to take part in their general care. Though Collies can have attachments, they are still very friendly dogs that are open to all.

Do Collies Prefer Petting?

Collies love to be petted; they often see petting as a reward for their hard work and dedication to their owner. While petting is linked to their work because of their history as herding dogs, it doesn’t mean they prefer this over cuddling! Petting is another excellent way to show physical affection to your Collie, so make sure you alternate between cuddles and petting.

Will My Collie Cuddle Other Animals?

Cuddling with other animals tends to be down to the Border Collies’ individual personality. While some love it, others may not. Border Colliers generally do get on well with other animals, such as dogs and cats; however, they won’t always want to show it through physical affection. Again, this can depend on how well they were socialized as a puppy, so if you do own another pet, make sure to introduce them to each other slowly to ensure they will feel comfortable around each other.